Future of Geek

As I was watching the Superbowl, reading an ethnography on Everquest while checking Twitter, I happen to look up and saw my daughter. I couldn't help but close the netbook and set the book down, laughing so hard I had tears. I then looked at my husband and said, "Raising the future geek...we're doing it right". What was my daughter doing that caused such a reaction? In one hand she had her DS playing a game and in the other she had her phone texting a friend from school. It was pure poetry in motion.

My daughter is 10 and is definitely following in mom's geek footsteps. She loves video games (was disappointed just this evening that I wasn't going to pick up playing Darksiders after the Superbowl), has been begging for us to start a tabletop game and tries as best as a 10 year old can to keep up with current technology. She loves reading manga and watching anime and her book collection has some amazing works (like those from Neil Gaiman). When I look at sites like thinkgeek.com she is right there with me, building her wish list which could rival mine. The thing is though, she doesn't consider herself a geek. Mom's a geek, she's just cool. This got me thinking... what is going to happen to the future of "geek".

"Geek" and the concept thereof has gone mainstream in a big way. People like me have paved the way for future generations of geeks to go forth and not even realize that it wasn't always cool to be a geek. I have always proudly worn my geekhood like a badge, screaming at every opportunity, "I AM A GEEK, HERE ME RECITE THE LINEAGE OF ". Geek is now sexy. Geek is now powerful. Geek as we now know it is cool. I confirmed this with my daughter. I asked her, "If someone at school came up to you and called you a geek, what would you think?". Her response - "I'd think it was a compliment".

I had to explain to my daughter what it meant to be "geek" when I was growing up. Needless to say she was a little shocked. Geek has grown up. Geeks have paved the wave for future generations of geeks to never know the hiding, humiliation and trauma that came with being a geek. So, does this mean the next generation is truly "geek"? If geek is now hip, don't we need to find some other moniker for this new generation? Don't get me wrong, I love being a geek and I love passing that legacy onto my kids but I can't help think that being a geek means more...it's not just about the doing but it's also about the experience of "coming up geek" and my "coming up geek" experience was so fundamentally different that I'm not sure it's the same thing anymore.

Of course, I could be wrong and I'm just being an old geek that just plain out doesn't get the new generation of geek. Either that, or I'm being selfish; the experience and title of geek is mine and I'm not sharing with my kids. After all, their geek isn't my geek, so I can't help but wonder exactly what the future of "geek" is.